How a friend can derail divorce.

How Friends and Family Can Derail Your Divorce

April 8th, 2014
Hardly a client comes to our office who hasn’t been given some great divorce advice by a brother, sister, great aunt, girl friend, guy friend, neighbor, or coworker. The topic seems to attract quite a bit of input from others, who are more than… Read More
What is this divorce going to cost me concept image.

What is this divorce going to cost me?

February 28th, 2014
Clients always ask, “What is this divorce going to cost?” As attorneys our answer is, “It depends.” There are a range of factors that affect the cost of a divorce making it difficult to say with certainty how much it will ultimately c… Read More
Hostile divorce dynamic effecting the children.

Hostility in your divorce - It's affecting your kids

February 24th, 2014
Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging time as parents and children adjust to necessary changes in home life, daily routine, and new roles within the family. It is a time of transition, and it is to be expected that such a significant event in the life… Read More
The difference between an OFP and a HRO.

Understanding the Difference between an OFP and HRO

January 17th, 2014
We have a number of clients that come to us, who have been subject to some form of abuse or harassment and are seeking legal protection. Others have had an Order for Protection (OFP) or a Harassment Restraining Order (HRO) filed against them and need… Read More
The players in the process of family law matters.

Players in Family Law

January 6th, 2014
Understanding the different actors in family law can be challenging for those who are unfamiliar with legal terminology or who are new to the family law system in Minnesota. The following terms will hopefully serve to clarify the common players in va… Read More
Helpful books about co-parenting.

Helpful Books on Co-parenting

December 9th, 2013
One of the most challenging aspects of any divorce can be learning how to cope with the changes that divorce brings, after the papers have been signed and the court proceedings are over. For couples with children to the marriage, adjusting to shared… Read More
When can your child fully decide to live with their parent in divorce.

At What Age Can My Kid Decide to Live With Me?

November 12th, 2013
For parents going through a divorce or attempting to modify a custody order, this is a question that is often on their minds. In Minnesota, this question does not always have a simple answer. Under state law, custody is determined based on what is in… Read More
5 things to know before marriage

5 Things to Know Before Marriage

October 23rd, 2013
1. Their assets and liabilities Talking with your partner about money is not always the easiest thing to do, however you must bite the bullet and address this topic head on. You don’t want to seem like you are digging for something but you also wan… Read More
Going into mediation with or without an attorney.

Should You Go to Mediation With or Without your Attorney?

October 18th, 2013
With some exceptions, almost all divorce cases in Minnesota will be required to participate in some form of alternative dispute resolution, such as mediation, to resolve legal issues. In a divorce, couples often struggle to come to an agreement on is… Read More
How to get a judge to dislike you in court.

5 Ways to Make a Judge Dislike You

October 17th, 2013
The courtroom can be an intimidating place for anyone unfamiliar with its formalities. It is far more intimidating to sit in the courtroom than any actor can portray on a television show or in a movie. While a party does not have to always agree with… Read More
A couple talking about their modify child custody situation.

How Can I Modify Child Custody?

October 17th, 2013
A child custody order will invariably affect the wellbeing of your children and influence the dynamics of your family life. We often hear from concerned parents whether it be a mother anxious about her ex-husband’s drinking problem or drug abuse, o… Read More
The process of choosing a divorce attorney.

How to Select a Divorce Attorney

October 10th, 2013
Divorce can be a challenging time, and having the right attorney by your side can make a world of difference. Choosing a divorce attorney goes beyond finding someone who is qualified and has experience in the area of family law. Below are a few consi… Read More
Prenuptial agreement signing.

Do You Need a Prenuptial Agreement?

September 16th, 2013
A prenuptial agreement may not be for everyone; however, certain individuals should consider one. Prenuptial agreements get a bad reputation because you are planning for the marriage to end before it even starts. A common disbelief is that at the sam… Read More
A married couple committing child maltreatment.

What is Child Maltreatment?

August 28th, 2013
I spent 10 years working as an assistant county attorney in Southern Minnesota in the 90’s. One of my duties was to sit on the child protection team. It consisted of child protection workers, lay community members, a doctor from the Mayo Clinic… Read More
The wife trying to deal with divorce stress.

Top 10 Ways For a Wife to Deal With Divorce Stress

August 26th, 2013
10. Get a manicure/pedicure or massage. The point is to pamper yourself. You deserve to be pampered. 9. Plan a last minute get-away weekend by yourself or with your girlfriends. You can go as far as you want. Just make sure this is weekend is not you… Read More