What to know when your parents are paying for a divorce.

Three Things to Remember When Your Parents Pay for Your Divorce

August 21st, 2014
We’ve all heard the statistic: roughly half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce. This translates to one divorce every thirteen seconds, and well over 6,000 divorces every single day. Looking at the big picture, divorce is a com… Read More
Consoling your adult child through a divorce.

How to (Emotionally) Support Your Adult Child Through A Divorce (and Survive it Yourself)

July 30th, 2014
Everyone understands that divorce is hard on the couple whose marriage is ending, and of course for any children they may have. Fewer people think about the impact of a divorce on the parents of the divorcing husband and wife, but watching your adult… Read More
The cost of not hiring an attorney concept image.

The Cost of Not Hiring an Attorney

July 15th, 2014
You may have seen cars sporting bumper stickers that say, “If you think education’s expensive, try ignorance.” There could just as easily be one that says, “If you think hiring an attorney is expensive, try representing yourse… Read More
Measuring money

Budgeting for Divorce

June 5th, 2014
For many people, the idea of budgeting–for anything–is unpleasant. Budgeting involves putting pencil to paper, or fingers to keyboard, and taking a hard look at finances in black and white. That hard look can reveal realities that are dif… Read More
Talk to an attorney prior to spousal maintenance decision.

Karon Waivers: Why You Must Talk to an Attorney Before You Waive the Right to Modify Spousal Maintenance

May 5th, 2014
We’ve already discussed in this space the basics of awarding spousal maintenance in Minnesota, but we’ve touched only briefly on the concept of modifying spousal maintenance. Normally, once an award of spousal maintenance has been granted… Read More
Spousal Maintenance 101 explained.

Minnesota Spousal Maintenance 101: What You Need to Know

April 21st, 2014
What is Spousal Maintenance? Spousal maintenance is simply what used to be known as alimony. In Minnesota, there are two types of spousal maintenance: Short-Term or Temporary Spousal Maintenance is paid to one spouse by another for a specified period… Read More
How a friend can derail divorce.

How Friends and Family Can Derail Your Divorce

April 8th, 2014
Hardly a client comes to our office who hasn’t been given some great divorce advice by a brother, sister, great aunt, girl friend, guy friend, neighbor, or coworker. The topic seems to attract quite a bit of input from others, who are more than… Read More
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What is this divorce going to cost me?

February 28th, 2014
Clients always ask, “What is this divorce going to cost?” As attorneys our answer is, “It depends.” There are a range of factors that affect the cost of a divorce making it difficult to say with certainty how much it will ultimately c… Read More
Hostile divorce dynamic effecting the children.

Hostility in your divorce - It's affecting your kids

February 24th, 2014
Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging time as parents and children adjust to necessary changes in home life, daily routine, and new roles within the family. It is a time of transition, and it is to be expected that such a significant event in the life… Read More
The difference between an OFP and a HRO.

Understanding the Difference between an OFP and HRO

January 17th, 2014
We have a number of clients that come to us, who have been subject to some form of abuse or harassment and are seeking legal protection. Others have had an Order for Protection (OFP) or a Harassment Restraining Order (HRO) filed against them and need… Read More
The players in the process of family law matters.

Players in Family Law

January 6th, 2014
Understanding the different actors in family law can be challenging for those who are unfamiliar with legal terminology or who are new to the family law system in Minnesota. The following terms will hopefully serve to clarify the common players in va… Read More
Helpful books about co-parenting.

Helpful Books on Co-parenting

December 9th, 2013
One of the most challenging aspects of any divorce can be learning how to cope with the changes that divorce brings, after the papers have been signed and the court proceedings are over. For couples with children to the marriage, adjusting to shared… Read More
When can your child fully decide to live with their parent in divorce.

At What Age Can My Kid Decide to Live With Me?

November 12th, 2013
For parents going through a divorce or attempting to modify a custody order, this is a question that is often on their minds. In Minnesota, this question does not always have a simple answer. Under state law, custody is determined based on what is in… Read More
5 things to know before marriage

5 Things to Know Before Marriage

October 23rd, 2013
1. Their assets and liabilities Talking with your partner about money is not always the easiest thing to do, however you must bite the bullet and address this topic head on. You don’t want to seem like you are digging for something but you also wan… Read More
Going into mediation with or without an attorney.

Should You Go to Mediation With or Without your Attorney?

October 18th, 2013
With some exceptions, almost all divorce cases in Minnesota will be required to participate in some form of alternative dispute resolution, such as mediation, to resolve legal issues. In a divorce, couples often struggle to come to an agreement on is… Read More